Thursday, November 3, 2016

Cougars confessions and letters of true love stories

I'm a 41 year old female who has been married for almost 20 years, have two small children.  My husband has been distant and not interested in me or our children and been doing his own thing.  I felt so lonely and s.e.xually unfullfilled when I met an amazing young man.  He is only 18, but emotionally very mature, tall, dark handsome, an athlete, and he approached me, saying that he had always had a thing for older women.  We had s.e.x once, he was so nervous even though he is experienced s.e.xually.  Now Im in great shape, but I could hardly believe that someone this goodlooking was nervous having s.e.x with me.  He was soo embarrassed that it only lasted about 2 minutes but I reassured him that it was fine.  We stayed in bed for more than two hours, just talking.  It was the most amazing conversation.  I don't know what will happen, he has not been in touch with me, maybe because he feels I wasn't impressed with him s.e.xually.  He gave me the most tender, passionate, deep kiss before he left, but not a word from him in over three weeks.  I should just let it go, but I miss him.

i am a woman age 47 in love with a 26 year old man.  never in my wildest dreams would i have thought this would occur.  i am very conservative and had no intentions of seeing a younger man, let alone consider marrying him.  Well, after he pursued me for over a year I gave in and agreed to date him.  Honestly, he is beautiful; caring, attentive, sweet, kind, hard working and together we work great.  We talk...really talk...he listens as well as remembers.  He has no issues with the age difference...I am the one who held back or wold freeze up in public.  Overtime, I got over it.  That is when our relationship bloomed and after 2 years, we are getting married.  What can i say.  unexpected, wonderful, and we're going for it.  I am unable to have children and he is fine with that.  I'm peaking in my career and he is just starting out...which works for us financially and practically...we joke that while i am carrying the load now he will be supporting me in my retirement. This is the most mature healthy relationship i have had, it feel right, and i would not change a single day. Do what is right in your heart...hey...we're not getting any younger.  ^.^  

I get called a cougar but I've not chased anyone young, they come after me. Everyone I have been out with has never felt young to me. I've always felt like we're just 2 people getting along and having a nice time. And they spoil me :)
My ex was abusive and it was all blamed on his depression. He was often the most childish id**t I have ever known so perhaps I don't notice any signs of immaturity in the men I've seen because they all seem grown up compared to what I am used to?
Every man has the ability to act very un-grown-up so I'm not sure age is always an important measure of maturity. There are 50 year olds who get totally pissed and look the fool and there are 23 year olds who don't even drink alcohol.
The guy I like has a proper job, own house & car etc. He doesn't drink or smoke. He is educated and very witty. He is caring when I have had an upset and very childish (in a nice way) when he is trying to make me laugh. My ex couldn't even get himself out of bed in the morning or hold down a job. This new guy feels more like a mature man to me than my ex who was 15 years older.
I am thinking now that age does not matter apart from the wanting to have children part. Which may be the problem I am facing :( 

I posted some months boyfriend is 28. I am 47. I have thought and thought and thought. I waited a life time for this man. I love his smile, his sense of humor.,..his beautiful blue eyes. No different than I would a man my own age. I've been a man older than I...and you know what?? I was still his mother...not old enough to be his mother....but, had to play the role just the same. As well as being a mother to his children. No more. I will do what makes me happy. I will be with the man that loves ME, and loves my little boy..age be damned. He respects me in a way that no man of my own age ever has. I'll take the stares, and the whispering behind my back. For real's worth it.

I'm a 48 yr young woman in excellent shape most people think I'm 38, he is 26. We have known each other as strictly friends for 3 yrs and we know now that we have always been very attracted to each other (he explains it as weak in the knees or drunk feeling). We did not act on it until 5 months ago because his mom is my sisters best friend and I too am very close to her. I am falling in Love with him!!! I am very torn about this situation on one hand I feel I need to let him go and let him find some young girl to Love, Marry, and have kids with thats only fair right???? On the other hand I want him for the rest of my life to love and cherish. It tears me up daily we are so good together, we make each other happy, we laugh, we act silly, we have deep hours long conversations, we have AMAZING s.e..x.  I understand him he understands me we can be totally honest with each other!! Just not the rest of the world because I am sooooo afraid of losing his mom as a friend and he is afraid of what my family will think of him (mostly my nephew who is only 5 yrs younger and they are good friends too)....I'm so torn I know what I should do but my heart doesn't want to!!! 

Monday, June 6, 2016

Instagram message leads to relationship

A Houston middle school teacher who police say had a long term relationship with a thirteen year old former student and who was impregnated by him, turned herself in to Police. The strange thing about this relationship is, the parents of the student appeared to be okay with it, and even let the boy stay with Vera overnight.

Court documents allege she was introduced to his family as the boy's girlfriend, and the woman said that his parents supported the relationship and invited her to family gatherings. She reportedly said she told a school district investigator the family was "very supportive and excited" when she disclosed her pregnancy. She allegedly said she and the boy "love each other."

The whole thing has been highly destructive to Vera's life, and it's hard to say why, given that the boy and his parents both consented and approved, and Vera was a willing participant.

Both the teacher and the boy are Hispanic, which is important since in traditional Mexican culture, teenagers are allowed to have relationships, and couples where the woman is older than the man are commonplace and not denigrated.

Vera said the relationship began in September, and said she and the 13-year-old were in love. This according to court documents obtained by the Houston Chronicle.

Vera told Aldine school district police that she met the boy in 2015, during summer school. The boy asked for her Instagram name, which she says initially she refused to give him. He later found her, and she rejected his "friend" request.

When school resumed in the fall, Vera said the boy flirted with her and made comments that were "unprofessional." The student eventually asked if they could "hang out" and she agreed. Vera told police when she picked up the boy, they would kiss in the car and later had sex at his parents' house, with the boy's parents full knowledge and consent.

She met the boy's parents at a school open house in October, then went drove the boy to his home. He introduced her as his girlfriend to the parents, new immigrants who completely accepted the relationship as they would have in their native Mexico, according to the documents.

Documents state the sexual encounters continued on an almost daily basis. Vera told police that the boy often spent the night at her apartment, and that she'd drive him home in the morning so he could catch the bus.

She told police that she became pregnant in January and that the family was supportive and excited about the baby, documents state.

She said she decided to have an abortion after Child Protective Services showed up at the school in February to ask about her relationship with the boy. She later denied the pregnancy and the relationship to CPS. It is ironic that the only real victim in this story, is Vera's unborn baby.

Vera voluntarily gave her phone to officials, in order to prove that messages the couple exchanged, supported Vera's story.

Neighbors told KHOU-TV that teenage boys were often at Vera's home in Spring, where she lived with her young daughter.

In a statement from Aldine ISD provided to the Chronicle, district officials said Vera was immediately fired in April and placed on administrative leave after allegations were made.

"Aldine ISD police investigated the incident and turned their findings over to the Harris County district attorney's office," the statement reads. "The safety and security of Aldine ISD's students and staff remains a priority of the school district."

Stovall Middle School made headlines in 2014 when a teacher was accused of giving a student a lap dance on his birthday. She was ultimately sentenced to probation. The boy was sentenced to five years of hand slaps from his male student colleagues.

Saturday, May 7, 2016

Be quiet or else you could get in trouble

A Pennsylvania, USA woman is going to locked up for having LOUD  S..E..X.. . On March 21, 2016 police were called and responded to reports that the neighbor, 25-year-old Amanda Warfel, was “loudly fornicating and banging around her bedroom to the degree that the "victim’s" dresser and her own bed shook,” according to an the report. Tanya Saylor told police she asked Warfel to quiet down because her teenage daughters had school in the morning, but she said the woman screamed at them through a common wall and became even louder.

The victim Mrs Saylor claims her family put up with the neighbor from hell for two years and “should have started calling the police a year ago.”

Saylor claims Miss Warfel would describe what was happening so loudly her Saylor's daughters could hear. She said she’d hand her daughters headphones to wear as they went to bed. Saylor said “we gave her a full year of trying to do it the right way,” meaning that rather than involve the authorities, she tried talking to Warfel and her grandmother, to no avail.

Things crescendoed in January when Saylor’s eldest daughter needed to spend 10 days isolated in her room following cancer treatment. Miss Warfel behaved like a crazed rabbit having S..e.x. “nonstop, making sure that my daughter heard,” Saylor said.

“They don’t sleep well at night,” said Saylor, who is white but whose husband is black. “There’s constantly inappropriate things that go on in her bedroom.” Saylor said she’s tried talking to Warfel and her grandmother for months about the noise, but she called police after the dispute escalated.

Monday, April 25, 2016

English teacher texting sweet things in english

28-year-old Sara D, a former teacher of New Berlin West High School, was charged on Friday, April 8th with two counts of s.e.x.u.a.l assault of a student by school staff.

According to the criminal complaint, the victim indicated that during the 2014-2015 school year he was in an English class taught by Domres. The two "became friends and began to text each other a lot." The complaint indicates sometime in July 2015, Domres and the victim had inappropriate contact "in the backseat of the defendant's vehicle at the Park and Ride on Moorland Road in New Berlin."

The complaint goes on to say during the 2015-2016 school year, Domres had inappropriate contact with the victim one more time -- "at the Motel 6 off of Bluemound Road in the Town of Brookfield." Investigators were able to confirm the victim's phone had been connected to the hotel's WiFi -- and Domres "paid cash" for the room. The victim told police they were in the backseat fully unclothed. 

Also in the complaint, detectives "determined that between May 14, 2015 and January 6, 2016, the victim sent the defendant approximately 619 text messages. Between March 29, 2015 and January 15, 2016, the defendant sent the victim approximately 555 text messages."

Officials with the School District of New Berlin said they learned of the allegations against Domres on January 15th. The teacher was immediately placed on administrative leave.  After an internal investigation by the School District of New Berlin, Domres was fired.

Newly released documents reveal their relationship began last May, when the English teacher started texting her 16-year-old student. The texting turned to meeting up, and eventually to physical contact.

Investigators found evidence on Domres' phone where they refer to each other as "baby boo." Texts read, "I love you!", "You're extremely attractive to me!!!" Baby Boo, I love you now & forever! Please be mine forever & ever. Always, your baby girl. P.S. Good luck on your quiz" , Hopefully you've been thinking of me Baby Boo. I should go because he will be home soon. I love you. Be good, think of me and no one else! Ha ha.,' another text message from Domres reads. In another text message conversation, the night they allegedly stayed at a Motel 6, Domres reportedly asked the boy if she should marry him. 
'You’re extremely attractive to me!!! I can’t wait for our night we are doing it no matter what!!!' she said. 

The two also exchanged physical letters, which the boy kept. One back-and-forth - exchanged in class - included the following messages: 'We will have to plan something soon. I want a night again. Xoxo.' 'Yes! Definitely soon. I really want another night with you too baby boo!' 'I want to do you (smiley face symbol) NOW!!'

Investigators believe Domres met the teen at a Brookfield Motel 6 the night of her husbands bachelor party and sent the teen a selfie while she and her husband were on their honeymoon. 

Monday, April 18, 2016

Prison female teacher learns new tricks from younger male

A teacher who worked for the Department of Corrections in New Jersey, USA is charged with having a s.e.x.u.a.l relationship with a convicted murderer who fathered two of her children, prosecutors said.

Miss C. Chang, 42, of Delran, confessed to having s.e.x with a younger black male inmate more than 20 times while she was employed at New Jersey State Prison, prosecutors said. The inmate was only identified in charging documents as R.W. as he is considered a victim and his age is listed as 35. It is alleged R.W. is in prison for being convicted in 2004 of fatally shooting Javid Patel, a 23-year-old coin Indian immigrant and laundromat manager during a robbery, according to published accounts. 

An investigation was launched into Chang’s and Walker’s illicit relationship. Detectives from Mercer County and from the New Jersey State Police, armed with a warrant, searched Chang’s home and vehicle. During the search of her Delran home, s.e.x.u.a.lly explicit photos and her journal were discovered, authorities said. Her phone was also searched and turned up additional incriminating evidence, authorities said.

Chang was arrested Jan. 29 and charged. She appeared from the Mercer County Correction Center for a video bail Thursday, as prosecutors laid out in bare detail the charges against her.

Assistant Prosecutor Jennifer Downing said the woman detailed in her journal two pregnancies that ended in a miscarriage and an abortion. Though the multiple and repeated s.e.x.u.a.l contact between the teacher and Walker appears to have been consensual, Chang is being charged because prosecutors said she was in a supervisory role over the inmate.

Miss Chang is Asian and was born in Korea but a naturalized US citizen, Chang obtained a master’s degree from Rutgers University. She has two children and no prior criminal record, Markowitz said, and landed her job through connections her father built as a retired corrections officer.

She was fired by the Department of Corrections after charges were brought against her, Markowitz said. Chang was hired in February 2007 and made $72,792 a year to teach inmates, NJDOC spokesman Matt Schuman said.

Chang had apparently grown close with Walker’s family, showering them with gifts and even attending a wedding, prosecutors said. She also shared intimate photos of herself with Walker, prosecutors said.

Tuesday, April 5, 2016

Counseler counsels boy with questionable counsel

A Texas juvenile jail counselor got intimate with an inmate and had dirty dates with the teen boy, police said.

Miss S. Baxter, 29, had a relationship with a boy almost half her age younger. The boy was a 16-year old whom she was supposed to help.

She met the teen almost half her age when he was an inmate at Lake Granbury Youth Services, a juvenile jail near Fort Worth in Oct. 2014.
Baxter was a licensed professional counselor intern employed by the Texas Department of State Health Services at the time.

After the boy was released in June 2015, his mother found n.a.k.e.d photos of the counselor and dirty texts from the counselor, according to a police report. One of the text messages was as follows -

“Baby I have never felt this much for anyone as I feel for you, I am so in love with you,”

The boy’s mom called police and later contacted the Texas Rangers. During the six-month investigation, police learned that she took the boy to a “Life In Color” concert at the Rio Grande Valley and stayed at a Holiday Inn Express.
That’s where they had some form of “ activity, but didn’t have  intercourse,” the teen told police.

She was arrested on Dec. 22, 2015 and charged with violating the civil rights of a person in custody, and indecency with a child by s.e.x.u.a.l contact, according to jail records.

Friday, January 22, 2016

White female teacher is video taped with black student doing something .....

Tanya Ramirez, 31, struck a deal with prosecutors earlier this month and pleaded guilty to the second degree felony charge of having an improper relationship with a student, in exchange for seven years of probation. The student victim was a 17 year old black boy who is said to have been one of the most popular kids in High School after the incident.

She will also have to surrender her teaching license and pay a $4,000 fine, but will not have to register as a offender.

How it happened 

Tanya Ramirez's life turned to chaos after someone allegedly reported to the school principal that there was a s.e.x. tape floating around school containing a black male student and a white female teacher.

Court document states, when confronted the student fessed up that "it was him having .s.e.x with the teacher. The student explained that the affair started when he "exchanged telephone numbers" with Ramirez. According to the arrest affidavit, the two began texting which eventually lead to an invite to Ramirez's house.

The student told police "a friend drove him to Tanya Ramirez's house around 2:00 a.m. and waited outside while (he) went inside... and had .s.e.x. and... recorded the incident with his cell phone"

The student claims to have sent that video to 11 of his friends.

Police were able to match a tattoo from the female in the video to a tattoo on Ramirez's lower back. Investigators also "discovered over 300 texts between Tanya Ramirez and the student."

Monday, January 11, 2016

Boyfriend encourages girlfriend to cheat on him

Michelle Souza, 41, and her boyfriend, Ricky Groseclose, 60, were arrested after the boy, Souza’s son, told Vacaville police about what he had endured for more than a year.

According to testimony presented during a probable cause hearing, it was text messages found on a cell phone belonging to the victim that sparked an investigation by law enforcement. The investigation led to allegations that Souza had been having s.e.x with the victim when he was between 10 and 11 years old. Investigators describe Souza admitting to them that several encounters occurred with the boy. Investigators also recounted several text messages they believe Groseclose sent the boy that complimented the boy on his having .s.e.x. with Souza.

Souza would tell the victim to text Groseclose a message stating “I did your girlfriend.” Responses from Groseclose, read, “It’s been awhile,” and “you should do it again, stud."... “make her scream.” 

Court records reflect authorities believe Souza had s.e.x. repeatedly with the boy, sometimes on a weekly basis, at their Raven Drive home. At least once Groseclose and Souza allegedly had s.e.x. with the boy watching them and then had him mimic Groseclose’s actions with Souza, according to court records.

According to prosecutors, Souza’s boyfriend, Ricky Groseclose had aided in the unlawful activity by encouraging the victim to have s..e.x with her.

The encounters varied wildly, according to testimony. In an interview with detectives, the victim told law enforcement the s.e.x.u.a.l. contact occurred as many as 90 times, and during another interview, only five times.


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